Friday, June 12, 2020

One Dogs Life


Waiting for Mr. J to return home from work. 

This pup, Paxton, is 5 years old. In dog years does that make him a teen or middle aged? 💁‍♀️ He is a Yorkie Bichon mix; I’d like to grow his hair out long so he’ll look more Yorkie-like. Getting there is a challenge for this adventure loving dog:

I’m not as crazy as I look


At any rate he keeps me busy. He cracks me up, frustrates me at times and steals my heart often. 
Look at him: 

How is that even comfortable to sit in the chair that way? It looks painful to me, but he seems to enjoy it.


So even when he does this:




Or this





With a face like this, seriously how can I not just love him? 💕



💕 Lady Phoebe and Mr. Pax 🐾



Tuesday, June 9, 2020

The First Harvest

I researched when to pick my zucchini and come to find out it is best to pick them while they are small or medium sized to help the plant to produce more. Well, that I can manage doing, I’ll have no issues having more produce to enjoy and share. I love grilled squash and zucchini bread is also a favorite in our home. 💚

I might have waited too long to pick the bigger one but I’m certain it’ll taste good. I can’t wait for tomorrow night’s dinner.



I have a lot of yellow squash showing up as well. It’s so very pleasing to watch things grow. 

As I was looking at photos the other day I found some of the garden from day one. Wow what a difference. 





I have more to plant, some seedlings didn’t survive but I am quite satisfied with my garden. My Wonderland section has managed to bring tomato plants back from the dead or almost dead. And even though I am somewhat uncertain of a few plants in there, (I believe some might be cucumbers and maybe another squash) at least there is life happening all over the place. 🌱


Gardening is a healthy thing to be obsessed with, and obsessed I am. A garden is a friend you can visit anytime of the day or night (yes I went out and picked my zucchini in the dark with a flashlight in tow) and always be welcomed. 


💕 Lady Phoebe




Sunday, June 7, 2020

Date Night

Things in our neck of the woods aka Elk Grove have started to open back up; to basically celebrate this monumental event (hahaha 😃) my dear Hubby planned a date night out. In a restaurant, where we sat down, had our order taken and brought to the table.

When everything was getting shut down we didn’t really know how long it would last or how much would be able to go back to the way we once knew them to be.

He set up the reservation and sent me the text to be ready to go out. When we drove into parking lot we followed the roped lines to check in with the workers waiting in parking lot. Then we waited in the car until we were sent a text telling us our table was ready (around 10 min or so).

We entertained ourselves by taking pics:




 When we went in and were seated, we were told to take a pic of our table receipt with our phones to view the menu (which would be limited on items) and waited for drinks to arrive.

We placed our order, waited a normal wait time and then were served. When we needed something it was brought over, so no issues there. We enjoyed our meal and watched how they cleaned up a table after being used. Napkins are balled up together and placed in a plastic bag and tied closed, everything is sprayed down and cleaned off by gloved and masked workers. The system seems rather tight. There is no salt and pepper shakers or ketchup bottles or vase of flowers left on the table.

When it was time to leave there is an option to pay from your phone again. Have you caught what has increased? Yes, the use of our cell phones has greatly increased.

There were two celebrations taking place (that I saw): a 16th B-Day and a graduation. It is nice seeing people doing normal activities amid the chaos of our time. Our country is also dealing with riots and looters during the protests for black lives matter. There is a lot of unrest, confusion, hurt, anger and yet people are trying so hard to help heal people’s hearts and lives with patience, love and understanding. So, though it is all so difficult and hard to understand and know what to do, if we choose to find the good and turn towards the Lord, we will find what we are needing and will know what we can do. 💙💛

The date was fun and it was nice to get out, but I’ve come to a few conclusions:

1. Dinner was good but our meals at home have been really good, even great. (Plus at a fraction of the cost)
2. Our conversation didn’t change just because we were out. Still talked about life events, kids, future... blah blah stuff.. same ole same ole! 🤭😉
3. Together, no matter where we are, my man and I have fun. We are able to laugh and think and share.
4. My favorite dates are still going to the river, driving around town, or eating a nut burger at the Sunflower Cafe. 🌻💛🤎🌻

Basically it boils down to this: If I’m with this man, then that’s good enough for me.


💕 Lady Phoebe

Friday, June 5, 2020

Something Other Than Leaves

I’m so proud of my plants, they have gotten so BIG?  This emoji 🌱 no longer seems quite right when describing them. Check these babies out!


The exciting moment for the day is that while weeding, normally a less than exciting activity, I came across a gift. Squeal 🤭 Yes I really did squeal and giggle; I might even have done a little dance.

If you look closely there is a zucchini squash nestled in there. I’m not a 100% certain when to pick it so it’ll be at it’s best and not go bad. But I’m certain I’ll figure it out. 💚

I’m finding gardening to be even more therapeutic than I could ever imagine. I am even starting to feel like I can say I have a green thumb. Why?

Well, my son brought over tomato plants that his roommate was killing off because they weren’t the kind he wanted, and I’ve managed to bring them back to life. I wish I had taken photos of how pathetic they looked so I could track their progress. So, even though it may sound so sad what the roommate was doing, I now will be reaping the benefits. 🍅❤️

💕 Lady Phoebe